Ásatrú Etiquette

The Ásatrú Society of America offers specialized teachings for how to effectively prepare oneself for preserving frith and attaining drengskapr beginning with the following instructions for basic ritual etiquette.

1. Stand tall and do not slouch when entering the Hof or other sacred spaces. If an altar, shrine, or image of the gods or ancestors is present, proceed to it, state the purpose of your presence quietly and to yourself, and conclude with a subtle bow of reverence.

2. Cellular phones and other mobile electronic devices are strictly forbidden during rituals and other services. Whenever possible, a specially designated box capable of being locked should be provided by the host for storing all electronic devices. All devices are returned at the end of the service. If a lockable box is not available, it is the responsibility of all in attendance to power-off their phones, and not simply engage “silent mode.”

3. There should be no frivolous talk, gossip or chatter whenever an altar, shrine or other sacred imagery is present. All but those leading the ritual should be silent until called upon to speak, or when it is their turn during rites such as sumble.

4. When attending a service or ritual indoors, remove your shoes at the entryway. You may exchange your shoes for slippers when provided. Additionally, whenever you know you will be attending an event indoors, be sure to wear clean socks.

5. If seating is available, one should display respect for the host or the ritual leader by remaining standing until invited to sit, or until all rituals and rites have concluded.

6. It is customary to show respect for a host or leader of a ceremony by standing whenever he or she enters prior to the ritual and again whenever the leader departs. It is also customary for all participants to welcome the leader of a ritual by saying “Hail to you, [and the leader’s name or title.]”

7. New members of a kindred group and visitors should also request to be introduced to the leader by a current member. The new member or visitor will then await introduction, and will only shake hands with the leader if the leader extends his or her hand first. (Icelanders, however, have never adopted the Anglo-American custom of shaking hands, so it is best to allow your hosts to initiate greetings they find comfortable and appropriate.) New members and visitors should also be reminded that the leader of the ceremony, especially a Priest, is very busy. Therefore, any unnecessary small-talk should be kept to a minimum.

8. If you must yawn, be discreet by facing the ground and covering your mouth with your hand. Do not stretch or be overly animated in your movements unless involved in a ritual practice that calls for such behavior. If you feel any other disruptive bodily urge, do your best to excuse yourself from the area to avoid distracting others.

9. Treat important texts, lore, and other sacred literature with respect. Whenever sacred texts or other important documents are utilized in the performance of a ritual or ceremony, do not lay them on the ground. If you are called to lead a ritual or ceremony and both of your hands are required, place any important text on something elevated, or invite someone to assist you. Do not use everyday objects as place holders or weights to hold pages in place.